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How to be More Ambitious

Ambition is a strong desire from within yourself that drives you to achieve your goals even if that takes hard work and determination. Ambitious people are more likely to excel in their work and personal lives.

Not everyone is born being an ambitious person, laziness, a lack of confidence in yourself and being unable to find motivation can all be factors that whittle away at any ambition you may have.

If you feel that you may be lacking so

 

me ambition, do not despair! The good news is that you can learn how to be a more ambitious person.

Start with Your Mindset

The first step in learning to be more ambitious, is changing the way that you speak to yourself and think about yourself. If you fill your mind with negative thoughts like “It’s too hard” or “I can’t do this” or “I don’t deserve this”, you will be less likely to push yourself or take risks in your work and personal life, because you will already believe that you cannot do it. It is mentally sabotaging yourself before you even begin.

Being kind to yourself is something that will only come about with practice. Repeating complimentary and positive mantras to yourself daily can be one way to boost your feelings of confidence and self worth. If you mentally assure yourself that you are capable and worthy, you will be more assertive!

Set Goals for Yourself

goal settingsSetting goals enables you to envision where you want to be in your life. Goals can be big or small, from getting to the gym three times a week to moving to a completely new city or finding a higher paying job, in fact it is good to begin by setting smaller realistic goals. Setting small goals that are easier to achieve will boost your confidence and increase your ambition.

When setting goals, think more about what you have to gain by achieving them, than about what you have to sacrifice or how difficult it will be to achieve them. You can choose to share your goals or to keep them secret. One way to stay on track is to make a vision board. Seeing your goals in tangible form will boost your ambition!

Change Your Attitude about Failure

Failure can undoubtedly be scary! Failure in our work or social life can bring hurt and embarrassment and it is the thing that keeps us from putting ourselves out there and trying to reach the limits of our ambition.

Ambitious people see failure as a temporary setback or as a lesson instead of something to be afraid of. Try to teach yourself see failure as an opportunity to learn instead of an embarrassment, because that is exactly what it is. You tried something and it didn’t work, so next time you know exactly what not to do! When you learn not to be afraid of failure, and to take it in your stride, you ambition is sure to become stronger.

Celebrate Your Success, But to a Point

Succeeding in any capacity of life definitely feels good and can be a great confidence boost, but ambitious people do not dwell on their successes. Your successes should be a fuel, not an ending point.

To be an ambitious person, you need to accept that you, in a healthy way, can always be working towards your next goal! Resting on your laurels can hinder your path towards achieving your next goal. Remember the feeling of achieving and use that to feed your ambition!

Reward Yourself when You Achieve

One way to remain ambitious is to reward yourself when you reach a goal you have set for yourself. A reward can be anything from a candy bar or a pair or shoes or even a holiday. Setting bigger rewards for achieving bigger goals is sure to fuel your ambition!

When you are working towards something, whether it be completing a project at work to completing a fitness challenge, you will most surely experience a certain degree of stress, and this stress could kill your ambition. But feeling stress is a natural thing and life cannot be complete without it.

Rewarding yourself for achieving a goal after a stressful period of time can help to keep your mind focused on your goals and your ambition burning during the stressful time!

Surround Yourself with Other Ambitious People

The attitudes and thinking of the people who surround you can drastically affect your own attitude and thinking. Ambitious people are more positive and are less likely to engage in negative behaviours. Ambitious people see themselves and others in a more positive light and tend to verbalize these feelings which can be very motivational. Ambitious people not only push themselves, but the people around them too.

Lazy or unambitious people are much more likely to have negative attitudes which in time will wear off onto you and affect your mental relationship with your own goals. Surrounding yourself with ambitious people will inspire you to keep your own goals and attitude in check. Find role models with healthy and successful habits online, in your work community or social circle and seek out their advice and friendship.

Do not let yourself be influenced by those with a lack of ambition. You can use social media platforms like instagram and twitter to ensure that you are met with inspirational words and images every day.

Srop wasting timeStop Waiting, The Time is Now!

Ambitious people do not wait for the things that they want to come to them, they go out and get it for themselves!

When you realize that there is no perfect time to begin to work towards the things that you want in life, that with some hard work it is all within your reach, your ambition will grow. Do not fall into the trap of excuses and begin today!

It may take some time no one is saying that it will be easy, but if you invest time and positivity into yourself, you will be sure to grow your ambition!

What is Tinnitus?

Tinnitus reliefTinnitus is a ringing, clicking, buzzing, whistling or roaring sound within your ear. Tinnitus itself is not a medical condition, but a symptom of various potential medical conditions. Tinnitus can become worse as you age and can be a great distraction from everyday tasks and life.

What Causes Tinnitus?

Tinnitus can have more than one cause. The following are a few, but not all, possible causes of the constant ringing in your eyes;

 

How to reduce discomfort by controlling back painIf you have ever experienced or struggled with back pain, you will know that it can have quite the debilitating effect on your daily life. Small and easy tasks you never paid mind to before can become monumental and undoable.

Back pain can be grouped into two categories, acute back pain or chronic back pain (neuropathic back pain, a condition where your brain continues to send signals that cause pain in the back even after the physical problem has been resolved, can be grouped with chronic back pain).

Acute back pain is usually caused by a sudden injury to any part of the back. Acute back pain is usually easier to resolve and does not last as long as chronic back pain.

 

Secrets To Attracting And Keeping MenOnce you are beautiful and you have poise and good body carriage you will definitely attract a man. Attracting a man has never been difficult for ladies. Keeping him is the problem. Unfortunately, ladies quickly blame it on men without accepting that the foundation for the breakup was laid right from the beginning by them.

For instance, what will you do when you catch him cheating? It is a big mistake to breakup. You are playing into the hands of the other woman when you do that. This is not to say it is right for guys to cheat but it is also wrong for you to breakup immediately. You can get angry, throw tantrums but if he is truly sorry, forgive him.

3 memory techniques for permanently memorising hundreds of pieces of information in little time.

Unless we remember we cannot understandEdward Morgan Forster

A good memory can make the difference in many contexts; at school,  university or work. Whether we want it or not, knowing how to memorise often keeps us out of trouble. How would you feel if you could prepare for an exam in just a few days? Memorise a work report in a handful of minutes? Remember the names of everyone you meet? (and you know how much this counts for interpersonal relationships).

An article on personal growth and change for… skeptics.

Four factors of Personal GrowthWanting to grow means admitting your weaknesses.
Wanting to grow means leaving your backyard and putting your beliefs in doubt.
Wanting to grow means confronting and clashing with those who remain lower on the ladder of personal growth.

After all, thinking that personal growth is just a jumble of stupid things makes our “place on the ladder” more… comfortable. But is it possible that life is only a constant search for security and comfort? If you are not convinced either, these four factors will enable you to have a look at the panorama that you can see from the next rung up on the ladder.

Happiness is not a utopia, but an emotion that we can live every day, applying methods that have been scientifically demonstrated to be effective.

There is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way.Wayne Dyer

Six scientific ways to find true happinessFor decades, the gurus of personal growth have promised to reveal the formula for happiness. But in the last few years, as well as books, both more and less serious, about the techniques and strategies for being happy, we also have scientific studies. If The University of Pennsylvania has established a degree course on happiness, The University of Edinburgh has gone further: the scholars A. Weiss and T. C. Bates, in their treatise “Happiness Is a Personal(ity) Thing”, have identified the factors that determine our happiness.

Five lessons for learning to reach your goals, ignoring the unexpected.

Chance never helps those who do not help themselves.Sophocles

Causality and determinism or, how to reach your goals… regardless of bad luckCausality means the circumstance in which someone finds him/herself powerless to foresee the occurrence or development of a phenomenon or event. To put it more simply: bad luck.

Determinism is the philosophical doctrine according to which everything that exists or happens (an event), comprised of human knowledge and actions, is determined in caUSal (not caSUal!) ways by an uninterrupted chain of events that have happened before. Basically: cause and effect.

Five lessons for learning to be a true leader (of yourself and others), inspired by famous dialog from “The Godfather” saga.

“True leaders are ordinary people, with extraordinary determination.”
– Anonymous

What does it really mean to be a leader? What are the essential characteristics and how can Francis Ford Coppola’s “The Godfather” teach you about leadership?

A short story and three practical applications for learning to put the important things in life first.

The Mayonnaise JarA teacher stood in front of his philosophy class and with some objects in front of him. When the class had quietened down, he took a large empty mayonnaise jar and began to fill it with golf balls.

Then he asked the students if the jar was full and they replied that it was.

The teacher then took a jar of gravel and upturned its contents into the mayonnaise jar. He shook it slowly and the little stones positioned themselves in the empty spaces between the golf balls.